This is how I see it ..

Now when it comes to being good at things (and I mean “Olympic-standard” good) I’ll hold my hand up and admit that I can manage a few “averages”, one or two “slightly better than” and countless “shockingly bads” But there is one thing dear reader that I admit to being earth-shatteringly amazingly good at, and [...]

They say if you want to meet someone then you should stop looking, don’t they? I have to hold my hands up and admit that I thought that was a vicious rumour put about by people who get sick of listening to their single friends bemoaning their relationship lot (or lack of, as the case [...]

It’s fair to say that this blog has become more efficient than any therapy I could have entered into. On occasion I’ve had comments within minutes of posting a heartfelt rant that have both supported and challenged me. Without a shadow of doubt airing my views and experiences has been both progressive and comforting at the same [...]

People who know me reasonably well will tell you I’m a forgiving sort of girl … eventually. I do a fairly sound job of mentally analysing life events and coming to rational, fair conclusions when disappointment rides into town. I also know that it’s exceedingly unlikely that my actions, neuroses and hang-ups alone were responsible [...]

There is one thing you can be sure binds us together when it comes to relationships …and to be clear I’m talking about all relationships here, not just the intimate ones. And that is this ..we’ve all been disappointed at some point. That’s not to say that every relationship will let you down, but in [...]

I really have no idea where time goes … it seems only two days ago I was discussing with a friend how I felt I needed to leave this blog alone for a while due to the fact that I believed it was getting a tad repetitive and that I thought I was starting to [...]

A friend asked me briefly yesterday for my thoughts on a particular dating site; he stated that he thought it was less of a “cattle market” than the others he had seen. I agreed that it was but went on to add in my usual negative fashion that I reserve for this topic that said [...]

In this heady and dynamic world of social networking, online dating and cyber chat, this question looms large in front of me  …….why and how do we determine the connections we make? How we make potentially romantic contacts is of course different to those we make for business or other social reasons ….. or is [...]

A little while ago I saw a discussion on TV about people’s mental age and after giving it the once over to ensure it wasn’t simply more garbage plumping out daytime TV, the thought crossed my mind that I could well have an explanation here for ongoing sillyness that those around me have to endure. [...]

My last post concerning men and their ensuing aging process seems to have stirred up a veritable hornet’s nest of opinion … the like of which has left me scratching my head somewhat. I still fail to see why advancing years are such an issue for anyone these days, irrespective of gender. Of course if [...]